If a friend is showing warning signs but is unwilling to go to a direct service like counseling, you can suggest that they talk to a trusted professor, advisor, coach, etc. who can assist in getting them into the right person’s hands. Although it is ideal that your friend is an active participant in seeking the help they need, sometimes your persuasion may not be enough. In that case, you may have to seek the assistance of a third party on their behalf, even without their permission. The important thing is that you don’t keep your concerns to yourself.
